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Last week i was in an interesting event. My father asked me to film the celebration of 45 years from graduation of his class. Also they were making a homage to two class mates. The supreme court’s president and vice president from São Paulo. It’s a rare thing to have the two most important positions in law occupied by two people from the same class. No need to say my father was in law. He worked in the field as a lawyer for ten years but after he got some money he changed his focus to business. It was a really interesting event to be attended. A lot of joy from old friends created the mood but for someone from outside that sphere there was something more enchanting to notice. As they were celebrating 45 years of graduation most there would have 70 years or more. As one of the classmates mentioned in his speech “they are in the autunm of their carriers”. So there they were in the end of their race looking at each other. Trying to learn what happened with the others or maybe avoiding it. One could notice some got rich and some didn’t. Some got powerful and other didn’t. Some looked really old and others didn’t. Some were not there anymore. Many died. But who got what they were looking for in their carriers? Who was there with a strong fire in the eyes with no worries about how did the other go and satisfied with the journey? I can say it was impossible to say. If the richer were happier. If the better looking had a better life. I looked at that group and imagined my self in their positions. It kind of scares me. What will i think of my life when i’ve already lived it?

I know all of you remember the first kiss. I could say it’s been twenty five years and i still remember the taste of fresh toothpaste in her mouth. I can also remember i didn’t enjoy as much as i should because i was trying to hide the fact it was my first so i was very concerned with the technique.LOL. Other thing that i remember is how long we would kiss. Is not that i don’t love my wife but our kisses these days usually happens in a minute. How come we would kiss for hours? It was probably the provocation for a continuity that would also be a first. It’s interesting how magic those were and how dizzy we would get in the middle of one. She said i was a good kisser. That helped me a lot afterwords with her friends but also with my self esteem. I was always i little chubby so i would need extra resources. This one was really handy. Girls would talk about the weird kissers. The boys that would try to “eat” their tongues and those that are like “blenders”. I miss those times when knowing how to give a good kiss would make a big difference. Times when we would choose the worst Movies playing so there would be nobody watching. Not that i don’t like kissing now but at that time it was all i would think about. Today there is work and appointments and doctors and lawyers and accountants and staff and business and family and so on and on. Little room for Don Juan. Maybe just room for a kiss goodnight.

Calm down. I’m pro it. I just heard from a friend that he got in trouble in his marriage because he was caught cheating and he engaged in a big discussion with me about how it’s instinctive and biological for man to have more than one lover as many other animals do. I know you will say as many already said that man are not supposed to behave as other animals and we do have the same amount of males and females in the world so no reason to think like bovine breeders. lol. But you will also agree that many still think that way. The difference now is that they know is not ok anymore to say it out loud. Do really man have different needs than women? Some guys say when a woman is satisfied she need no other. If she’s not satisfied she will change her partner. Guys on other hand can cheat without loosing the interest in their partners?? It’s a really weird subject for me because i’m maybe even lazy. I would never have the trouble of engaging with someone else when i’m still with my wife. It’s pointless and i’m not being cynical here. So i don’t get it but still it’s happening all around me. Is my sexual drive “discreet” and man are like animals or that’s a lame excuse for cheating? Are women like animal too?? Do they need to have more than one partner at the same time? I don’t know the truth about this. I know we are animals but we are intelligent enough to understand commitments we make and it doesn’t matter what the instinct says if you make a promisse and you expect the other person not to break it you also should not break it. Many things separate us from other animals and one is the full understanding of agreements and such. Other is that bovines doesn’t have lawyers.