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Passion is almost oposite to the love of old couples. Passion is very strong but it fades soon. Love is much more mild but it can last forever. The sex in Marriage has much more to do with passion in the beginning but after that something must replace passion. Most say there’s no marriage without sex but how do they do after decades together? I’m with my wife for five years now. As the relation is still kinda new it didn’t happen yet but surely someday passion will fade away and from what i read in magazines everybody is still having sex after passion fades. Is it a lie? What do they do to not become more like brothers and sisters to their  wives and husbands? Or do they become brothers and sisters and eventually sex is not an option anymore? If this is the case why does everybody lies about this? Are we obligated to have sex to be happy and functional and accepted? How long does sexual interest remains in a relationship? What i can say for my five years is that sex is not the most important thing anymore. The person i’m with is much more than that. Only to be able to participate in her life would be enough. I can’t think of myself anymore without her. So what’s the role of sex in this relation? What is the trick?

From the wiki “Moral character or character is an evaluation of a particular individual’s durable moral qualities. The concept of character can imply a variety of attributes including the existence or lack of virtues such as integrity, courage, fortitude, honesty, and loyalty, or of good behaviors or habits.”

I see shows like “SuperNanny” and i really get shocked. I’m getting old i know but the way kids are usually educated these days is really poor and even alarming. There’s a reason for criminals being criminals and this begins inside the family. I know that character can be genentic but not always. Brothers can have very different characters but then again the education is not the same even inside the same family. Right and wrong are concepts that our parents teach us and i can see no teaching in some families these days. That makes me worried for the future of these kids that will grow up to be people with a bad character and that’s not their falt. It’s the parent’s falt. I believe the lack of limits is one of the worst problems and things like depression are starting to grow in kids with just 8 to 10 years old. They seam to be unable to find satisfaction on life and they are still being taught that they should seek happiness without limits. It should be that simple but humans don’t know how to live only in happiness. I believe limits are good and to learn the difference between right and wrong is basic for a child to grow with character. Some think that by doing this you are taking the liberty of choice of these kids and that’s wrong but i really don’t buy it. We always need some kind of model because we start knowing nothing. So if parents decide not to be models kids will search it somewhere else and it’s not always that this search will end with a good choice.

I was a catholic baby and i had the first communion. I really oppose the church these days not as an activist but in my own heart. The things done in the name of the lord are sometimes scary and after a while you begin to realize those are only humans and humans aren’t perfect. The catholic is not alone in this matter. Many religions suffer from the same  mundane imperfection. The jewish with their segregation, the muslins with their politics and wars, the evangelics with their ambition for money and the buddhist with their wierd logic. I know… Who am i to judge? But i’m actually not judging. Just trying to look at it with racional eyes. They all have something in common. They promisse to all their followers a god that will take care of them in this and other lives. In return they what money and power. If there’s another world after this one why they are so desperate do rule this one? I’m not even sure they believe in what they preach. So let me talk about what i can believe. I believe in god! That’s sure! To me god is exactly what Jesus told us. He is everything, he is me, he is you,he is everywhere. We are all his sons and daughters and we are all brothers and systers. as i keep saying that’s quantum physics. It means we are all made from the same and we are the same. Actually everything is. So what about soul? I surely believe in it too! But i’m not convinced on the individuality of the soul. To me soul is god. God is everything. That means when we die we go back to “everything” as we are part now in a human form. Out of this form we reconnect with all around us as we are one. Do with think? Do we feel? I don’t know but if people believed in what i believe they would take more care with things around them. Maybe we’ll be there someday. Maybe we’ll be shining inside a star. Maybe in other dimensions. Maybe in a spirit besides the creator just as the church said. I wouldn’t count on it but who knows. What i really don’t buy is the idea of reincarnation. We can see all around us and learn with the universe. When our body dies it goes many ways. Earth by decomposition , water by evaporation and fluids, air by gas. Only heat stops and looks like we need all those four elements to stay alive. We mix with many other elements creating other things. The same way we vibrate and that vibration finds it’s way to new forms. That’s already new ways of life. So with people tend to confuse their egos with their soul? People actually imagine that the thinking part of a human actually stays all in one piece. Better yet they imagine this ego comes back in new bodies to straighten the past. To evolute as a “Mind soul”. You need to have a big ego to think that way! I’m sure we come back! But diluted in many forms and ideas. We also come back in the things we help perpetuate in this life! If we do good and help good to prosper we will perpetuate our selves with it. That’s what i believe. I gotta ask the religious folks to forgive me. I think religion in theory is a great gift! But not the gift of salvation sold by other humans. The gift of faith. And faith my friends is stronger than anything. It performs miracles. That’s because when we ask something from god we are asking something from ourselves. God bless you!!