We can’t live without it. It’s amazing how far we usually travel from the easier path in doing things and making choices. Maybe it has something to do with boundaries. We are always trying to extend our limits since we were babies and after a hole life doing this same procedures it becomes part of our personality. The result is Drama which is an interpretation from the old greek theatre meaning action. In this case it means action with no origin. It means to do things without necessary reasons or consequences. What is the relation between drama and limits? That’s just an opinion of mine but what i believe is that we have this mechanism activated to create tension and it was born with the need to break boundaries. To defy the Word “NO”. Kids fall from the stair of their homes because parents told them not to climb it. They upset Parents by not eating or not wanting to bath because they are constantly testing. We learn that we need to generate tension to get further and sometimes when there’s a lack of tension we create it from nothing. The solution usually is in front of our eyes but we need to try other paths and believe in other ways far form the right one. The problem with this is the deception it creates over and over enough for some people to also include this pattern into their own personalities as well. The big charade takes them nowhere and deep down they know it but the need for drama prevail and keeps this deception roulette moving. Some people can make it so real they feel much more pain from what they can generate in their minds than what the world really causes in their lives. Again it’s a matter of choice and anyone can decide to stop it and try to be more racional about things. It’s also a matter of balance. A little drama is heathy even to keep our passions alive. The problem is when it gets out of control and someone spends more than it should living in this private purgatory. The problem is when this drama becomes part of our relations and as it happens in our minds we can have a vicious circle going on and ending up defining these relation that after a while will not exist without deception. In other words: Stop sharing your drama and start sharing your easy.

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